at the beginning of the pandemic, many mothers are most worried about the question of what will happen to the children if they were taken to the hospital. Including because of this, some cases women delayed treatment to the doctor to the last. But those parents who are physicians allowed to treat the coronavirus house, we have no better. Because the temperature under 40, impotence and endless pain are not exempt from the need to feed and entertain their children. Some moms at the moment so hard that they are willing to give kids to strangers to my recovery. However, wanting to shelter themselves from the contact of kids even for a fee very difficult to find.
“SOS! Sorry for the wild request, but I just don’t know what to do. Maybe there are people already ill with the crown that will agree to take my sons 3 and 5 years to him. We are willing to pay for their accommodation and meals. Today I realized that I had reached my limit, it is so hard. No more strength to even get out of bed, but I still have a 3-month-old daughter is breastfeeding and have to constantly pump the chest. My husband and I both contracted the corona, the temperature for several days, she 39-40, spouse very difficult to tolerate the illness, need to care for it. And the boys, of course, also require attention. Older if still somehow you can take cartoons, the low-end all the time beside me as the tail. No symptoms in kids no, but of course they can be contagious”, a post published in the parent forum one of the moms. We talked with her and found out if the family on the illness to attach their babies.
– my husband and I several years ago came to Moscow from Yekaterinburg, have sold their homes and bought in the capital an apartment in the mortgage. Relatives here have not, and it would not be saved, because they are also children could be infected. Friends, of course, in Moscow we already have, but none of them crown did not hurt, so they take kids can’t. My husband got sick almost simultaneously about a week ago, most likely contracted at the store. The diagnosis is officially confirmed, but, fortunately, there were no hospitalization. The problem is that we both carry the disease very hard, some days a fever and ache all over the body and absolutely no strength. But children can not explain it, they have to feed, entertain. 3-month-old daughter still sleeps badly, constantly waking up and asking the chest. At night I get up now as if in a fog. And early in the morning to Wake us running and senior.
– And you are trying to find a sitter, ill with Kovalam?
– When I published my post of despair at the forum, I was approached by so many people. But mostly everyone was willing to help by giving advice. One woman sent me a contact nyanor, which in April had been ill with a virus. I contacted her, but to babysit and she refused. Said still can not recover from illness, and work it until exhausted. Besides, as I understand it, she is still very afraid of re-infection and did not want to mess with potentially sick children. We even gave an advertisement to find survivors of a nanny on the Internet, but in 5 days no one responded. I feel all the worse by the fact that there is no way at least a few days to rest up. From her husband there is no help, during his illness he, on the contrary, became for me as a fourth child. It is terrible that all this can end with a hospital and the children then do get in state institution, to which I treat with great caution, or in a children’s hospital, where you can pick up a bunch of other infection. In General, from all sides we have a vicious circle and when all this is over, is not clear.
actually, in case parents need urgent hospitalization, during a pandemic, there are strict rules against children. An adult must notify the doctor that he had no one to leave their babies. After this, children will begin to take guardianship. First, they will be sent to children’s hospital for examination for coronavirus. If the test shows a negative result, the child will be transferred to a special Family center.
In fact, many people even in case of illness, afraid to communicate with the tutorship and guardianship, as their actions in recent years has often caused serious complaints. Many adults, even the mention of this service causes fear. The result of diseased parents pull with the doctor on call to the last and you get even greater health problems.
– I’m raising a five year old son one, relatives live in another region, – said Olga from Moscow. – When in early April I had a heavy cough and fever, I knew that most likely, this is it. But I thought that for young this virus is not terrible, I can handle anything without the help of doctors. Of course, I was afraid to call an ambulance for fear that I would be separated from the son. The child has problems with speech and stuttering. Stress from separation with me, hospital and center with unfamiliar uncles and aunts would only worsen the disease. However, after a week my condition deteriorated, the temperature is not abated, and had problems breathing. Fortunately, by the time a mild form of the coronavirus have been ill my friend. She agreed to take his son to him, only then I agreed to hospitalization. In the hospital I had to spend two weeks, maybe if I went straight to the doctors and start proper treatment, hospitalization could have been avoided.
