By your knowledge you have been in the actions of your friend, and that is stressful. Now you want to be and correctly can help, but to stand against someone you love, is difficult.

Of the action with the black Board you seem to promise you, to you the protection of anonymity to relieve. But it is hard to imagine that this would really lead to a sustainable improvement of the Situation.

Apparently you’ve had the courage of your friend to address the Situation. This step you can once again create. Make your friend realize that you his behavior is not cheap can and that you a little companies will. Give him the Chance to have a say in what it should be.

What are the steps to make exactly sense, you could, for example, in a mediation discussion. The skilled person can enlighten you about the legal Situation. You can then work together to define a procedure, in which your friend for his behavior, the responsibility and, for example, professional help is looking for. Because the Chance is great that he knows very well that he is not doing this to other wrongs, that he can leave alone.

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Depending on how many emails arrive just in the consulting, it may take a while until I can reply to you. I give me trouble to answer all questions.

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