The anxiety is often big when in a new relationship with a previously known Problem. Not only that, the old wounds hurt all of a sudden. You will also be reminded painfully of a hurdle to overcome has been in the past.

In such moments, it is important to remember that the Situation is at all Parallel to earlier today, a new. It is up to the in the between time, and also the new Partner brings a different set of conditions than were encountered.

It seems so, so you’d be lugging a pretty big exhaustion from the last relationship. With this deal, it is worth – no matter whether you decide for to Go or to Stay. Because different a lot of desire is something that is in all relationships, sooner or later, to the topic. And if your only answer to that is that you’re running away then you do you in the long term, definitely not a Favor. Especially if you are experiencing a relationship otherwise than very fulfilling.

There are many ways to invest in the sexuality. What fits for you, you can not lump tell. Because both of you have to put your desires and Concerns to the table and be willing to make sexuality a pleasurable, common project.

Caroline Fux white Council and gives advice to uncertainties and Concerns in the area of Lust and love. You write your Problem via E-Mail to caroline@blick.ch or by Post to: Caroline Fux, Ringier AG Dufourstrasse 23, 8008 Zurich.