Even die-hard advocates of self-gratification can come into Doubt, if the Partner’s solo sexuality of the couple’s sexuality prefers over a longer period of time. Mostly a dance of pursuit and retreat, suffering a under the receivables and the other, rejecting then begins between the partners.

It is good that you stand up for your couple’s sexuality, and that your Partner knows that to remain in your relationship is an important area. However, if you pressure do that he has to sleep with you, instead of self-gratification, then you take away something to him, which supports him. So will he feel more threatened as understood and invited.

in a quiet Moment balance to your entire current routine. Couple sexuality is stunted when someone is experiencing a lot of Stress and not even during Sex, and wants to invest, and organize. The self satisfaction is simply a practical valve.

Draws two circles on a paper. The Size of the a symbolizes the current importance of self-satisfaction, the Size of the other, those of the couple’s sexuality. Use this visualization for a chat about your priorities and clarifies then, as your space for shared sexuality can manage to see without the self-satisfaction than competition.

Caroline Fux white Council and gives advice to uncertainties and Concerns in the area of Lust and love. You write your Problem via E-Mail to caroline@blick.ch or by Post to: Caroline Fux, Ringier AG Dufourstrasse 23, 8008 Zurich.