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face the fact that people tick differently. If you are under pressure. Your friend seems to need at the Moment of discussion other than you, and it is important that he gets room for his Experience and his reaction.

What exactly happened with you in the relevant discussions, it is difficult to say. A pattern seems to be, however, that you have a very rare disagreement, when, then but violent. Tried it with a regular Update conversations in everyday life. So things you can address before they grow to you over the head, and reserve for heated moments of build up.

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