The idea that one is in a relationship for the other the Only, or the Only, for many people an important part from the relationship happiness. What exactly does that mean in everyday life and practice, is not often quite so clear.

For you it seems to be important that your Partner has no contacts to other women who have any of the erotic or amorous character. These will take place yet, you feel threatened and helpless. These feelings you have are not selected, and you cannot simply leave. However, it is important that you open yourself to the idea that your Partner has other ideas, without you and your love, therefore, less serious.

at The Moment, seems to be for you to be the only solution, that your Partner fits with your values. That’s what you want, among other things, through the control of its mobile phones to prevail. Pressure and control damage to the love, however, is enormous.

and compare your value systems, without discussing, who must adapt to whom. Take the time to find out for yourself why you need what safeguards and freedoms and what is their threat to trigger with you. So you can benefit you and your difference to approach.

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