Your Concerns have been shown in a violent reaction of your body. Such moments of loss of Control frighten and to burn sometimes so strongly to Feel, that you can later occur again, if one thinks only of you.

don’t get you in a vicious circle, it makes sense to go in for a consultation. There you can talk about your Fears and learn how to deal with the Stress and the physical reaction is better can. If you feel in a stressful Moment, that the disgust is coming up, can you calm down with targeted relaxation techniques.

In addition, you must tackle the Situation on the level of relationship. Because currently quite a lot of pressure, which may belong to a beautiful sexuality is there, apparently, and what is not. You have to porn definitely not a good thing. There are a lot of them, you can criticize the law. That doesn’t change the fact that you have to be in a fulfilling Solo and couple sexuality is quite square, and also positive effects on a sex life can have.

It would be so important that you can open the space for different views and needs. Because only in this way discussions are possible in which neither you nor your friend under the pressure built up from buckling or being pushed dishonesty.

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