For outsiders it is often difficult to understand why the Absence of ejaculation takes certain Affected so strongly. Finally, it is “only” a little bit of cum. For the Doctors treating gradients as you are also clearly a success, because the erection could be obtained, which is used in prostate operations, not a matter of course. The Patient is still unhappy, does not fit the plain and simple in the treatment plan.

the fact is: You suffered a huge personal loss, and you alone have the right to how serious this is for you. Not to feel as a Person completely, is not a luxury problem. Recognize and name what you’ve lost and how it was linked. To let the feelings come up. Be sad, angry, empty, or whatever you just ran into. No Emotion is wrong.

you Take as much time as you need. But, if at some point the willingness to germinate, to let this lost go. Maybe the curiosity is even higher, find out who you are without this part. As a human being and as a man. Then, but only then, can the way open for a new sexuality, in pleasure as they enjoy the erection that you feel actually can have consistent

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