Well, for a year, my fiancée and I planned, advise and make us all happy – the so-called “the most beautiful day of our life”, our wedding. Currently, we are a bunch a shards. We may not celebrate in the planned Church, has been fixed for today. Whether the Ceremony can take place – we don’t know it. And to the Registrar’s office may the best man and the parents not be present. For events of any size-Westphalia because of the Coronavirus in North Rhine-is actually prohibited.

The idea to the Move is terrible

And, let’s be honest: This feels terrible. I know I talk well. Finally, my profession is not in me on the Brink. I don’t have to fear for my existence. Also I don’t count the at-risk group. So there is another, which is currently significantly worse. Nevertheless, the current wedding situation is extremely depressing.

the wedding rings may need to be re-engraved, is still the smallest Problem. Serious questions like: do we Get the otherwise fully-booked request, the restaurant even on a different date? Then come all of the guests? Who remains, finally, to cover the costs? What is a realistic date that we can reschedule? … In short: we have not presented to us on this very special day.

Why me?

And I can’t help it all: at times I wonder why just the two of us so something must happen. Why must break the crisis is now about Germany? Why we can not simply choose a different date? Would not have passed less drastic measures, maybe?

rationally, I know that these thoughts are productive. It could have all been different – but it is not. That’s why I want to understand the current Situation is much better than a good school.

Not the rulers of the world

We people don’t have the Power over everything. Crises like the present, let me be aware of. And that is a good thing. It helps me to be humble. We are not always the rulers of this world, there are limits. In the reverse conclusion this means: I can be many things to be grateful, because they are not self-evident. To be able to celebrate weddings, for example.

misfortune moments like this ensure that Everyday makes me happy again. In a small everyone knows the feeling, for example, if the runny nose subsides after weeks finally. How much greater our joy will be, when we are allowed to occur, finally, as a Couple walk down the aisle? This will be a gift that I can practice gratitude.

All Good

And also in addition, I can learn from this Situation. As a Christian, I am firmly convinced that everything is for the Good. So why not also the potential failure of the wedding? Maybe the 28 would be. March is a rainy day become. Perhaps someone had plugged in, and would be seriously ill. Maybe …

In my past, I was able to experience again and again, that even out of bad situations something Good can arise. My supposed desire not to have me rejected by University due to a formal error in the System, I would have learned to never take my current fiancee know. I would have gotten the Job I wanted as a teenager, I would not be in a profession that fulfills me.

“are the ways of The Lord are inscrutable,” it is so beautiful. I was able to experience so far, again and again. Why not at my wedding? This positive Thinking I am now learning – if a little on the hard Tour.

of The Non-wedding day

28. March want to declare my fiancee and I doubt by the way to the wedding day. Who says you can’t celebrate, as soon as you can again? It is a nice thought, to tell our kids year after year, as their parents almost got married. And then luckily, as soon as possible have to be rescheduled.

This article was written by Nathaniel Ullmann In FOCUS Online/Wochit In the

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